Friday, January 31, 2020

Book Review: A Very Stable Genius By Philip Rucker

Is there a method to the madness> Is there a calm before the storm>Will we ever survive?

Well, folks if you're living under a rock you may not have noticed the current state of constant chaos, fear, intimidation, bullying, intimidation, manipulation, and corruption using non stop threats and legal ramifications.
I really don't like repeating ad nauseum but based on the Goldwater Rule many professionals psychologist and therapist cannot diagnose from afar so safe to say I'll go with what I know from first hand 'general' terms in having divorced one.

I read some of the reviews and I noticed this commentary and I quote, " a man out of his depth, ignorance, bully, 'chews out staffers,' There is very little of Melania in the book and only a few mentions of his children."

Folks, hello! These are your warning signs.

Look, we've all probably been duped at one point and it's not easy to admit we've been conned.

Professional con artists, Don Juans, and chameleons are able to sell themselves and are easily able to adapt to changing environments.


The reason you see very little interaction or unconditional love or connections w family and or friends is because they truly are isolated and alone in their frequent outbursts, anger, rage, and mood swings.


Narcissists; like my own malignant variety, are not fond of romance, swooning, or even responsibility.


They will ride the coat tails of others, appear for the credit and attention, seek benefits, and will work for loyalty and leadership.


They are in essence dictators who will stop at nothing to see the enemy destroyed and that enemy is anyone who questions their actions, who examines and fact checks their replies, who seeks normality in their abnormal lives.
The fact that most survivors live on eggshells, exhausted, and ill shouldn't surprise anyone.


It's pure and utter madness much like the hamster on the wheel as it's a constant flow of hatred and bigotry.


The grandiose ego and the need for the spotlight can take many forms including publicity stunts, negative attention through media, or even a simple reaction from a competitor.
This fuels that ego, that superiority, that god like quality that they truly feel they are above the law and in full control holding all the power.


The ONE is someone who believes they can do no wrong.
Lies, fallacies, legal and false accusations, witness intimidation, jury tampering, blackmail, threats, manipulation, brain washing, gaslighting, love bombing, triangulation, mirroring, projection, word salad....it's all in there.


Or let DT describe it in his own words," I'm a total act and I don't understand why people don't get it."


No prior president has ever abased himself more abjectly before a tyrant- Thank you Sen. John McCain!


"Trump the Grump"


"There's a new ethos. This is a presidency of one. It's Trump unleashed, unchained, unhinged."


What he sells the public is the need to please. He understands the economy is in shambles so he promises to fix it.


He knows people are suffering so he offers tax breaks for the wealthy one percent.


He knows farmers need help so he cuts a trade deal that hurts them even more...


I think you get the point - whatever you want he will mirror and repeat back to you. This is called selling himself and my own malignant narc told me it's all you have to do is be able to sell yourself.


The empty promises, the broken dreams, the legal ramifications, the bankruptcies, the trail of destruction both personally and professionally should speak volumes.
However, many live their lives in a bubble. People inherently want to believe in the goodness of others.
They want to believe he's credible and believable. They want to believe he's a leader not an authoritarian figure.
They want to hope and pray for our country and the sake of our allies.


Yet, just open one if not two eyes and see the writing on the wall.


I know survivors who've spent years in a state of fog. The iceberg is only just the tip of what they allow you to see (so much more lies hidden below.)


It's not that others want to see him fail -it's that others have lived it - have felt the wrath- have survived the rage!
We are the ones they fear because we know the truth and have exposed the lies!


Staying silent, remaining isolated, being closed off and withdrawn through smear campaigns is the only agenda to keeping the enemy down.


You cannot fight fire with fire.


Often, I tell the survivors the best is to walk away but here we cannot as he holds the highest office in the land.
Clearly, "The White House is broken."


The high turnovers, the lack of transparency, the remedial education and intellect, the lack of supervision and the lack of after thought should scare anyone who knows this person can bring our country to war and has the secret codes to our national security and safety.


The lack of filled positions, the lack of skilled labor force in his cabinet and beyond, the lack of an open dialogue and a give and take reciprocated process should worry us all.


Having been left bankrupt and homeless by a toxic individual who also worked a block from the W.H. in the OBP division - I know the end result and I know how dangerous these men in suits and ties can become.


Monsters come in all shapes and sizes and do not have horns!


This is the new norm of fake news, or division, of sowing doubt in the minds of voters.


Don't hate ! Educate! Learn the warning signs of NPD

(Narcissistic Personality Trait Disorders) Know the truth! Keep protective boundaries and find supportive groups.
For those in this constant state of depression seek help and do not feed the narcs.


Family is viewed as nothing more than a source of supply. They are unknowingly portraying the narc in a certain acceptable light. Yet, behind closed doors the mask does fall.


These malignant narcs operate from a false sense of self so nothing they say can be taken literally or figuratively as it holds zero value.


Please vote them out and save our nation, our environment, our citizens, our allies who have mocked us for allowing this insanity to continue w/o ramifications or reprimands.
Nobody is above the law. Not even one that holds the highest office in the land.


See something say something. Our nation is under attack from within and we must not continue to wish it away or hope for a new norm to arrive.


We can't live in a fact check world. We can't live on edge. We can't become the breeding ground of hostilities against one another.


We cannot make excuses for behavior that is obviously blatant.


We can't find answers as to the why it's happening but we must find answers as to how to hold it accountable and responsible to those they were sworn in upon the bible to serve.


God bless the USA!

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