You know the old adage -He's Busy- well this brings that one to shame as bigamy is no joke!
Step forth dear ladies and tell us your pitiful stories as we try to unravel this con artist is his ever loving glory.
Three wives - the first being married 11 yrs. and nobody had a clue there were two others.
Ok, ladies I married the King of this mess and trust me there's clues. Check the bank statements, see the work schedule, check in with colleagues, you know those late night get together dinner meetings, or those DC end of the year parties, how about the DC night life at the local hotel bar?
Did you check the mileage on the vehicle , monitor the phone calls, oh the darn blackberry always held clues to the whereabouts.
When the finances don't add up that's your sign. When the clothes are suddenly fashionable or out of the norm - you know when you go from neutrals to pastels -that's your sign. When you smell a new scent around his aura of charm and bs you know that's the sign.
New shaving cream, new workouts, new gym wear, come on now....We must stay vigilant - this gal did - and after 11 yrs of marriage I uncovered a treasure trove of information from phone calls, to meetings, to screwing the intern of only 8 month visit-Thankfully she's back in Arkansas and not running and or jogging with my husband.
Now, ladies when you contact her she won't wish to speak so let me tell you how this goes..."Oh, shiite your wife just called."
You know that reminds me I'm still waiting for my award of wife of the year for putting up with it all while raising our three kids alone and doing so 5 states away in poverty but I digress -do enjoy that 75 k a year job while we beg for food at the local food banks and volunteer for scraps.
Now, please we must know something is a bit off center but these ladies each possessed something that enticed and in fact gravitated this narcissist to them.
They smell desperation, they smell isolation, they smell lack of self worth and self esteem like a meatball hoagie at Subway. They know when to come and get it if business is open.
Shut it down!
As if this wasn't enough the latter of the three women has a shady past and Yes, I'm speaking to you -Diamond because girlfriend shiite's going downward fast.
Stand up ladies and take control.
You can't let this ass-hat take you for a ride.
Noelle if you want a baby go to the damn sperm bank -trust me it's less expensive, less aggravation, and at this point you might even get to choose your type.
Vanessa - don't go running to the hospital when you here your cheating man is in their but rather run for your life and get a different name entirely. Enjoy Cy Jr coach and play on. Or was that-Play BALL!
Darn my memory fades from all these revolving door scenarios but ladies remember the queen of cheating men knows this all too well - if you ain't lovin' yourself first you'll never find it out there.
Take care of yourselves and entertain yourself because the wrong people will find you and they may just use illegitimate ways to gain a foothold over you.
Much love.
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